When you travel alone you are forced to interact with strangers. I wasn’t REALLY travelling alone when I went to Kathmandu in 2010, but I left Norway alone to meet unknown travellers with the same passion as mine – Photography.
Jay was one of them.
I felt pretty miserable at the time, and so did Jay after having lost his partner of 17 years. I guess we were all people with our own stories. People from different parts of the world now thrown into a pot like ingredients forming a stew. People who found the purpose of the journey exiting enough to head out into the unknown alone.
Jay made video blogs from his encounters, and preferred to be out alone when he was photographing. We were joking that he would become really famous some day. And then we all would be able to say “I know Jay”. We still joke about this in the Facebook group from the trip.
A year later I was on a workshop in Laos, and Jay stopped by in Luang Prabang to catch up with us. He had started on his round-the-world trip. And was starting to lighten up. After spinning a globe and placing his finger on it -Berlin was where the globe told him to go next. Come spring Jay had landed in Italy for a longer time – and I went to visit.
This time Jay had started on writing a book of poems. Poems that were happy, and poems that were sad. Poems from his life, but also poems of invented stories. A photograph became a story. A story of how the lives of the people in the poems were. Inside Jay’s head that is. Poems of how their lives could have been. He had this stack of paper – like printer paper you buy in a shop – and they all had a photo and a poem on them. I remember my jaw dropping.
After Jay made a visit back to The States… the book is actually printed. And even available on Amazon.
I got to see it – well I acutally got my own copy – when Jay came to visit me in Oslo last month.
The photo above is from the Vigeland Sculpture park here in Oslo.
Jay also spoke in my camera club and sold out all the copies of the book. He didn’t have time to speak with me during the break. I was so proud. My friend. Perhaps I know Jay now. A little :-)
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